Karen
I think it is the way you come across that is the problem. On the internet there are no facial expressions, no tone of voice so things can sound preachy, or aggressive when the poster doesn't mean it.
quill-drill has made some excellent points as to why people stop taking the pills on the odd occasion.
Personally I came back from Bali (years ago- pre pills) with a very nasty bug. I was passing blood along with the poo and eventually had a colonoscopy that found my bowel was inflamed.
Now I had taken imodium, had I not taken it I may have been even worse. The imodium allowed me to take a 12 hour flight back to the UK.
I too think that the pills are changing the way I eat, but I am not going to live my life and never eat a chip again. There are going to be times when I have to eat fatty food, OK not have to but may cause offence if I don't.
Have you ever been to an Indian wedding? It starts with a cup of tea and samosas. It continues after the wedding itself with curry and then back to the bride's house for more tea and samosas then on to the evening party with more curry. OK and that was only the day of the wedding - there are numerous other events leading up to the big day.
It would be a gross insult to the bride's mother to not eat something she ws offered. I have no idea was I ate in the gurdwara, I just know it was part of a blessing and that not eating it would cause offence.
It's not just Indian weddings - if you are invited to a wedding where it is a sit down dinner are you going to ask that salad be provided instead? Or are you going to enjoy the meal and the celebration.
I am not saying that I am going to stuff my face with high fat food, but there are times when I do not stick to low fat.
Also the low fat diet we are all following is not a normal way to eat - I want to lose the weight and then eat a normal health diet. Part of educating myself is having the odd normal day or the odd day when I go to the pub and have lunch.
Everyone is entitled to their opinion, but please remember to express it in a sensitive way.
One of the things I like about this board is that people are so supportive. If someone falls off the wagon no one is critical, they give advice, send cyber hugs and generally support that person.