Hi all,
Thank you for taking the time to read my post.
I had Hemorrhoidectomy / rectal skin tag removal surgery just over 6 months ago. The main focus was two external hemm. / skin tags that were removed. I had a very hard time initially after surgery…I got very constipated, and then every BM was insanely painful for the next week or two. Worst pain of my life by far, and I was left in excruciating pain / shock, writhing on the floor in pain after every trip to the bathroom, even when I was taking the prescribed narcotics.
I have seen my doctor every 2-6 weeks since the procedure and he’s been checking my progress, and every time I see him he chemically cauterizes the wound(s) with a liquid that burns. He says it seals the wound and encourages new growth, strengthening the skin, but it also makes me bleed all over again for about a week.
He has been more or less satisfied with my progress, and a few months ago suggested I start the “final stage” of recovery, which is the use of dilators / toys, with the end goal of being able to participate in anal sex if I desire, and/or just get back to normal life. I’ve been using them on and off over the past 3 months.
However, ever since the surgery, I have had consistent mucus / discharge. It is often yellow in color, sometimes brown, sometimes pale yellow / white, sometimes very dark brown. It seems, to me, to be completely unpredictable. I assumed it would gradually go away over time…but now, 6 months after the surgery, it is still there every day. Some days more, some days less, but definitely not lessening overall. I use a gauze pad to catch the mucus / discharge and I have to replace it multiple times a day. My doctor seems a bit concerned and confused about it…and just tells me to keep using the dilating toys…that everything takes time…although he told me I’d be fully healed and ready for anal sex in 3-4 months. I am not at 6 months and definitely not even close to that point.
I’ve read through similar posts in here, and I know many of you are still dealing with pain, etc. so I am grateful that I am mostly pain free.
Can anyone give me any advice??? I am drinking lots of water, eating a high fiber diet, taking 2 fiber pills a day, and following everything my doctor says…
Many, many thanks in advance!