I did something sexual to myself and I think I tore my anus I started using preparation h a couple of days after it happened and have been using it for a few weeks now the pain has mostly stopped but I can see where there is a sore or a rip is this a fissure and if so what do I do to heal it the preparation h Dont seem to be helping anymore and my uncles says its not gold to keep using it like I have been so what do I do I want to see a doctor but I can't afford it i should probably go but like I said im broke I have swollen limp nodes in my thigh ones the size of a nickel the other the size of a dime is this because of my problem... how do I fix this.
Who Are You,
​Dont ever send me any more messages you have bought this on yourself.All of us on this Web Site are going through awful pain and agony, bought on through no fault of their own.
I know its my fault and im stupid and hate myself because of it but I was just asking for help because it hurts and anytime I look up any of what's going on with me it always pops up as a fissure I was simply asking for help cause I am im pain does it really matter that its my fault though either way I still have a problem and am asking for help please??
If anything you're trying from the drugstore without a prescription is not working go see your doctor. Fissures are hard to treat and for some botox or surgery is the answer. Trust me you don't want to suffer with this long term. Don't be embarrassed to ask for help. Doctors see all kinds of things, hard to shock them.
Here are some suggestions I have for you to help you through:
1. Try somee zinc oxide in the form of calmoseptine which has menthol to soothe the area down there as well. Calmoseptine can be bought at almost any local drugstore and can be bought online too.
2. Try squatting when going on the toilet instead of sitting. This is a much helathier position and the poop sometimes will just slide out, no pushing or straining involved.
3. I would definately take a fiber supplement, specifically metamucil is what I take evveryday, in ordr to allow your stools to be soft and to allow them to pass thorugh easily. THis being said, with any fiber supplemetn, you must drink lots of water when using them, or they will not work veffectively. Also, do not take too much as too much fiber can irritate your bowels on the way out and diarreah actually does worse down there.
4. I would recommend getting a sphicteronomy surgery if htings dont get better. I waited it out, gave up, had the surgery, and was able to heal within about two weeks. I had a chronic fissure, so I knew where you are ocming from with v all the pain and discomfort.
Hope this helps!!!
Thanks I bought some stool softeners yesterday i hope that helps
That should help a lot. Just drink lots of water with them and don't overdue them either. You want soft stools, not hard ones and not super liquidy ones.
I have thwliquid capsules and already drink alot of water this morning was the first time it was bearable to use the bathroom I only take one a day when I wake up
That should be good then
Thanks Clive, your words echo my own. Hard to have sympathy for some one who has brought this on themselves. When one considers the many sufferers who truly need help and feel such pain on this site. Bravo to you!