A (hopefully) helpful post: My “herpes“ symptoms?

So a week after unprotected sex I knew something was off. started with itchy legs. soon after, i started getting new bumps around my genital area, every. single. day. boils on my butt cheeks (eek). ingrown cysts and boils in my genital area. they werent typical herpes sores or ulcers as im very familar with those as i have oral herpes. but genital herpes can present itself any kind of way which leaves me clueless. and not only that, I would get single itchy bumps with holes in the middle on random spots of my body. i get a bump on my wrist, or my leg, or my arm, on my face, etc which made me suspect an hiv rash. (btw as far as i know as of now, i dont have hiv). the symptom that has been bugging me the most tho? my vulvar area. its inflamed! it sort of burns and is red and warm. itchy rarely but still very inflamed. i dont think its prodrome. its been a week. and to describe my discharge, it was thin, watery, and kinda smelly for a few days. so i was like 95% sure i had contracted type 2… up until yesterday anyway.

I was googling my symptoms the other day when i stumbled upon staph infection articles. ALL my symptoms check out for staph. the random bumps on my body, the boils and infected hair follicles. and staph does cause vulvovaginitis (inflammation of the vulva/vagina). pretty much every symptom i have rn.

so im making this post just to document my symptoms see if anyone is experiencing similar. this post could possibly show that what you’re experiencing can be a totally different thing other than herpes or even an std at all and not to freak out and assume the worst cause you never know. but if i do have herpes, it could show how different outbreaks can be, not just whats on google bc mine have been singular bumps that look nothing like what ive seen online. i also havent had painful urination or anything. this is intended to be informative. i will test for all std’s and herpes type 2 soon. it will be atleast 4 weeks post possible exposure and sharing the results. if anyone wants to be updated on the outcome you can follow the post or leave a comment. i dont like it when people come on here to ask if they have herpes and say they’re gonna get tested without updating on the results and just disappearing off the site, leaving anyone who may be experiencing the same symptoms totally in the dark.

anyway, im a little nervous but ill be alright. i’ve prepared myself for the worst so if it does turn out to be herpes i wouldnt be upset. not the end of the world. im choosing to have faith that ill be okay regardless of my results. if anyone wants to message me, feel free. updates coming soon. (sorry for the long post :/)

WEIRDLY, I am having sorta the same issues. But its sorta more affecting my butt. I had an inflammed anus. I have an itchy butt check occassionally. I dont have unprotected vaginal & penis sex. I’m a girl btw. & sometimes I get a weird prickly stabby feeling in my pubic hair area and thighs. What could this be?? I suspected staph as well hoping that my partners dont have stds. However you cant trust anyone. It also sometimes makes my stomach hurt.

Btw I went to the doctor for an HSV 1/2 test & tested negative. My gyncelogist thinks its a nerve but she’s also isnt a skin doctor. Because its on my skin so shes like its not a vaginal infection. Because Ive tested negative for gnorrhea, clamyhdia, & trich multiple times. When I showed her a bump I got from an image she claimed it didnt look like herpes, or syphillis. or hpv wart. but idk what is going on. Im tired of HIV but I dont think I put myself at risk for that being I only had unprotected oral. Idk what it could be but Im definitely gonna suck it up and take a full panel soon.

*terrified of HIV

i definitely feel you. im psyching myself out thinking i may have hiv. fingers crossed i dont :confused:

when do you go in for testing?

im thinking next week. so it’ll be 6 weeks post exposure.

oh dude im having the same feeling in my pubic area! but ive never heard of it being from herpes. staph and other skin infections, according to the articles ive read, can cause that feeling. so who knows

did you ask the guy?

about if he’s clean? well hes sort of being an a hole so no i havent. he was tested a little before he met me, i do know that

Yeah guys are shitty

i also have the same symptoms. commenting to see what your outcome is!

right? shoot i hope he’s clean but idk. ive had a genital herpes scare before so im hoping this is just another one

will deff keep you posted! :slight_smile:

okay update: im pretty sure the random itchy bumps with holes in the middle were flea bites. i woke up from a nap today to a flea on my arm (i know ew) i guess it’s been eating my flesh while i sleep the past few days. the bumps are gone and i no longer suspect hiv. but fingers crossed!

another update: i know its been a while but i went to get an igg test for type 2 yesterday and all std panel. i got a pap and found out i have bv so that explains the discharge. ill get my results in 2 days

got my results: negative got all std’s including herpes type 2

got results! negative for all std’s including type 2 hsv

well this is great!! now are you able to relax and quit worrying?!

did they test you for staph?! are you still ref and inflamed in your vaginal area?