A No Good, Horrible, Very Bad Day

Today was not a good day. Today was the official first day back for teachers. We had meetings and I becamse extremely anxious. I was almost going to crawl out of my skin. It was loud and way overstimulating. I thought I was going to lose it. But I didn't.

​My heart was racing, almost pounding out of my head. Swallowing hard, looking for a way to escape. But I sat there. ANxious and all.

​We eventually had to leave site to attend another meeting at another school with way more people - I was a wreck. Luckily my teaching partner was there and she is aware of my anxiety. Maybe it helped a little. We had to lsiten to a speaker. The lights were low and I tried to focus on the speaker and not my anxiety. I almost wanted to fall asleep.

​Went to lunch and then hard another meeting. I felt ok then. Went back to the classroom and became overwhelmed the all the work that I have to do and what needs to be done. I felt like a lost puppy today and it felt horrible.

​I'm just afraid that I'm going to lose it. I try to remain positive but sometimes the anxiety wins.

​I woke up with my heart racing wanting to look at the clock. But I refused. I wasn't going to get out of bed until my timer went off. That was difficult.

I'm just feeling really low right now. I know I made it through the day but it was horrible.

​I have an appointment for "talk therapy" tomorrow and I will take to the psychologist tomorrow. The breathing exercises really didn't help me today.

​Please, please tell me that everything will be ok. Please, please tell me that I am strong enough to endure this. I so need reassurance right now.

​Next week I see my nurse practitioner and hopefully she can adjust my meds. I feel lost and hopeless right now. I want to roll up into a ball and hide. But I won't.

I just feel exhausted.

I just read your response to Eduardo. In the midst of your distress you reached out to help someone in trouble. What a wonderful person you are. You continue to amaze me. I respect you a great deal, Tip. You are admired by many here, of course including me. You are oka, dear friend. Just keep reminding yourself how very strong you are.

When I need a boost, I often think of you. You are really rather glorious.

See what the therapist thinks about all this. Do your best to hang in there you have more control then the teachers with regukar kids. You can do the breathing you all talked about. Maybe play low classical music by your desk.   Too. Low enough its like you hear it but it fades as you walk to the back of the room.  Keep ice chips in a thermos for yourself. Great sidetracker for your anxiety..you out it under your tongue. I used that many times i was stuck in traffic lol. Its just hectic whilst your all getting ready with meetings and such. You can even get signs for the room abiut breathing and calmness. Why not is very helpful for everyone and reminders for you. You worked so hard to get where you are and have a lovely job..theres got to ways to make this work and where you are ok. Hooefully the therapist can help. Whoever is giving you your meds also might be a great person to talk too. Jeez the next time a Doctor says oh its just anxiety they should clocked in the head.  

I don't know what happened to my reply, so I'll write it again. I just read your response to Eduardo.. In the midst of your own distress you reached out to help another.

You are an example to us all, dear friend. We are all fortunate to have you here, Honey. Keep on keepin' on.