Hi
I dont think you can ever be pain free completely with arthritis
You can only manage it...I know thats not what you want to hear.....sorry.
Do you need to use a stick? Would that help at all. I remember how i fought against a stick at the beginning,then a four wheel walker {spinal problems} but not all the time.
Now its crutches permanently
So dont be to quick to think about surgery.....my first THR didnt work particularly well.....I wasnt much better after it....still some pain.....my 2nd one 13 months ago is the one that has left me on crutches permanently.
Doing an exercise they said, and there was a crack and a bone at the top of my leg fractured and it will never heal
I know its your spine.....but they argued between themselves was it my hip or was it my spine......hip doc said it was referred pain from the spine, Back doc said no it was referred pain from my hip to my back
They wouldnt operate on my spine anyway they said.
Sorry this is such a "down" post
Just trying to be realistic.
I still drive, I volunteer for arthritis care, I have meetings here there anbd everywhere. I do a lot in our church as well. I have a lot of friends.
On various committees ......ourGP for instance.
Its not the end of your life.......you might have to adapt a bit but most things are "doable"
I was told by a very wise nurse when I left the hospital.......take the meds you are given......dont play catch up with the pain......keep on top of it.
Doesnt work trying to play catch up
Hope you find some useful hints from others
Love
Eileen UK