Am I a lesbian in denial or is it HOCD?

Mental health
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maybe some psycho sexual counselling would help you sort out your feelings

rich

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or try sandi's option and experiment a bit.

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I was referred to a therapist and a psychiatrist. I have an appointment next week. Thank you for your suggestions.

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I feel the same way lately I've being thinking about women and I don't want to be lesbian or bisexual because I've like guys my whole life and I just recently started thinking about if I like girls and it's stressing me out and it's getting annoying

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Hey I'm going through something similar I wanted to know if you got any help? I've been like this for now around 5 months and it's all I think about every second of the day and it's ruining my life. 

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Hello there! May I ask you if it would bother you if you were attracted to women? Anxiety is a b***h and will hit any area of your life that it can use to scare you. I know of people who because of anxiety got into this thinking about being gay and being terrified in case they were, although never in their life this would even cross their mind before anxiety!!! The more you are afraid of this thought the more it will be used by your brain as a threat unfortunately sad I am suggesting a visit to therapist/counselling as they will be able to help you with this issue. Please do not stress over this, it's just another way of anxiety manifestation. You will stop having those thoughts when you start working on overcoming the fear and accepting anxiety! smile Good luck ❤

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I'm feeling EXACTLY the same as you. I am aged 12 and puberty and all that horrid stuff is happening for me right now which makes it 10 times worse.

Sometimes the anxiety (or the HOCD) leaves me in a state that I just can't stop crying and I feel helpless. 

Bella smile

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I’m having these intrusive thoughts too, did yours ever go away?