I'm so angry at my ex. I suffered anxiety and depression last year during our relationship. He would always mention his ex said I need to gain weight, said he liked girls who looked like her and called me predictable. I feel anger towards them both she clearly is a nasty piece of work as she also tried to burrow her way back in...what annoys me is that their act had a really nasty affect on my life..and she in particular seems to be totally unshaded going on holiday etc... In my life the last thing I want is to hurt others I never squeeze my way into relationships cause upset of pain...yet people find it so easy to cause that on me...I feel so much injustice I would like to meet someone who just cares about me for who I am..but I feel like I always meet nasty ones and that's all
I deserve
I just feel so angry
you only get the love you think you deserve. I have been in a 8 year relationship in the past and a 4month relationship and they were basically the same person. I was choosing wrong. I'm a fixer I picked the ones that didn't ever focus on my life I was consumed by there's bc I worried about there well being bc they were addicts. It's a cycle I had to break. My mom did the same thing with my dad.In reality it's all my insecurities I sometimes have good guys that come across but I have a hard time accepting them, bc I question why they would want me. I have to be comfortable with myself and accept someone that accepts me for who I am the good the bad and the ugly. This guy u dated is a jerk really was trying to put u down to probably make himself feel better. No one should ever make you feel that way ever!!! Screw them both, corral you don't need people like that in your life. You need to figure out what you really want in someone and what you definitely don't want. So you can look for red flags. You will find someone but you just gotta maybe change the norm of what you date bc maybe it hadn't worked. Hope that helps a bit but don't let anyone ever put you down. Ppl who put others down aren't happy with themselves.
I understand and thank you... Sometimes it's just too painful I just feel like she's won
Don't look at like that bc you don't want to be with someone like that. Let those toxic people out of your life. They can be losers together. You are better than that and you have to believe that. Look at like he did u a favor and it may be hard but forearm that is not who u want to be with!! He ain't no good! And that girl is an idiot for being with a guy like that.
Dont be angry at him because he has clearly taught you what you do not ever need in your life. What a mean spirited ex you have. Thats on him and you must have a lovely angel looking after you that has spared you a very miserable future. You wait and you will find a real person with sincere feelings that will support and uplift your spirits
Kelly, I too have been really hurt by a Woman whom I thought I knew. 13yr Relationship that in the beginig I was hesitant about after just a few week's and tried to end it in a way that did'nt Hurt her. U c I had been in a relationship 8 Months b4 And realised I needed to get my head sraight. It's a long story but she managed to manipulate her way into my life bcoz I am a Naturely kind person, and dont want to hurt anyone. So here I am 13yrs down the pan, and married for 6 to please her. She has been quite a vulnerable person i e suffering fro Depression I too suffer from Depression/Anxiety for several yrs but was alway's there to prop her up. Thankfully I do not have children with her. Around about ast xmas 2016 I noted a change in her behaviour towards me coldness and abuse not physically, but Mentally. As a result I had to leave the rentedvhse who's Tenancy was in her name rendering me technically Homeless. I have been good to this Woman over the yrs, but realised I was never in Love with her, but loved her as a companion, She has a Daughter, NOT a nice person, VERY Sefish whom I have tried to include She recently had a child Impusivejy with someone who she only knew a few months b4 hand and the relationship quickly broke down as I knew it would. Believe me I have been too good to both mother and Daughter I have lost count of the amount of Holiday's I have taken them on and competely financed and much more. Even though I have had other Relationships b4 I have bee faithfull to this Woman Who has now turned and put me in a realiy bad spot. I was severely unwell with Depression, and had to stop working bcoz of it. She did'nt care or bat an eye lid. The Cat is out of the bag now, and we r seperated. I have been deeply hurt by her. She had a relapse and begged me to come back, abd that she had been obsessed with her grandson. I decided to hear her out, but she has now slipped back to the lousy manipuating person she really is. I am trying to get away from her but cannot get housing. The point to all this Is: I am experiencedcto know that if I did meetvsomeone else, and I will give myself "HEALING TIME" b4 I would if I woud ever consider this is that u have to give everyone u meet a clean sheet, and let THEM show u who they r. People r all different, and u have to give them a chance despite what someone else has done to hurt u. Real Love is not being told that talk is cheap "It's what someone does for u that defines it" I will leave u with this: TRUE LOVE IS IS STRONGER THAN ANY WEAPONS OF WAR IT OVERCOME'S ANY OBSTICLE IT IS A STIMULANT TO A LOVER IT IS THE STRONGEST FORCE THAT EXIST'S AND CAN OVERCOME ANYTHING IT IS AN ABILITY THAT NOT EVERY ONE HAS. I HOPE THINGS WORK OUT FOR U. AND LOOK FOR SOMEONE WHO IS WORTHY OF U. IF U SEE SIGNS THAT U DONT LIKE FROM THE ONSET DONT WASTE THE MOST PRECIOUS COMMODITY WHICH IS NOT WEALTH BUT "TIME" WE R ONLY HERE FOR A SHORT TIME! DONT WASTE IT ON ANYONE WHO DOES'NT DESERVE IT. Best wishes to u Kelly, tae care☺