So I have an update on my current situation, I have posted the whole of goings on in a previous 2 posts so I’d appreciate if you read them first. (Apologies in advance they are long, forgive me)
Long story short I was broken up with by my long term bf and was left with our 3yo son for about a month now. Hardly any contact from him since and he has isolated himself from all his friends.
I managed to talk to his mother this evening and I managed to go into detail about the situation with her. She had no idea how dire the situation was and was shocked to say the least. I told her that he walked out on us without even trying to fix things with me or at least talk to me about what was going on with him. I told her that in the few weeks/months leading up to the split he became very emotionless and cold toward everyone that knew him (ig. Friends and me and our son) I mentioned how he has isolated himself from all of our friends and he has made little to no contact with anyone. I told her how he said that he didn’t love me anymore but at the same time he was so broken after he had done it. It’s such a confusing situation to say the least and even more strange she had no idea of the seriousness of it all. He’s depressed and she has no idea how bad it is. I was trying to get the fact threw that I did everything for that lad, I brought up our son on my own with my family while he went for his college degree/masters. I taught him how to walk, talk, I clothed him and fed him, everything on my own while my bf got everything else. I didn’t ask him for a thing, not even money. It’s not good enough. It’s not fair. I held everything together on my own and this is how I’m repaid? Not even a exsplanation to why. He hasn’t asked how are son is doing. He hasn’t replied to messages from me or our friends. His mother had no idea of any of it and she didn’t know how to respond to me. I’m just compleatly im shock and disgust she didn’t even try to ask him more about the situation even after it had come as such a shock to her and everyone. The boy isn’t well. He is depressed. He took on too much responsability and he snapped under the pressure and has just lost his family and I am just devastated. She did listen to me tho but idk if she will talk to him. Idk what will become of this. If anyone has any questions I will be more than happy to answer. Thanks for reading.