Anxiery or something more

Hi, New poster so please be gentle :-)

Where to start?

​I am 35 years old and about 6 years ago had a panic attack on a plane. It was the worst experience of my life as I had no idea what was happening. Genuinely thought I was going to die.

​So fast forward to present day, I'm happily married with 2 wonderful children (one who is 2 and a 6 month old). As people with kids know, its pretty tough. I work for myself and with the baby getting a consistent good nights sleep is near enough impossible.

​Symptom wise, Ive had the classics, lump in throat (literally 90% of the time since the first panic attack), I have brain fog, I sometimes don't 'feel real'. I went to the doctor after the first attack (mainly about the lump in the throat business), and he said it was all anxiety and for the past 6 years Ive probably buried my head in the sand and just got on with it.

​Recently, I have a new symptom and that is an odd feeling in my left ankle downwards. Sounds strange but it feels like I can feel the blood pumping. Its been constant now for about 5 days and I'm terrified of what it is :-(. I do play football and have had some injuries to that foot but not recently.

​My anxiety also reaches out to the medical profession in general. Ive never had any negative experience but I'm always fearful of going to Doctors etc and what tests they may send me for. I did lose my brother when I was a lot younger (he was epileptic and died from a brain tumour) so whether there's any mileage in that I'm not sure. Otherwise, its completely irrational. I do have an appointment next week but am dreading it.

​Just feeling really low at the moment and I think this leg thing is doing nothing for my anxiety. Just wondering if anyone else out there is going through similar.

Hi.  Anxiety is a crazy thing. Your body reacts to it in many different ways. I’m on my second battle with panic/anxiety. I’ve been on meds for two months now and can say that I’m feeling better.  The lump in the throat def sounds like anxiety. Also the foot thing is probably anxiety also. Maybe you tweaked your foot, but now you’re hyper focusing on it and making it a big deal.  Unfortunately,  That is what anxiety does ! I understand being nervous about the doctor, but you have to go. Make a list of everything and be honest with him.  It’s def better to know if there is, or isn’t something physically wrong or if it’s just from anxiety.  It’s hard, but you’ll be relieved in the long run. If the doctor wants to start you on anxiety meds, my opinion is to start low and increase in 10mg increments if needed.  Side effects are kinda sketchy, but the meds will help eventually. Keep strong and positive thoughts! 

Hello Maryheken my doctor gave me meds also Xanax but I don’t use them I don’t feel I need them so I just leave them in my medicine cabinet I never have any sucidial attack’s I just have tightness under my chest on a consistent basis I hate the feeling and wish it would go away .. my anxiety is because I worry to much and have too much on my mind .. I am dealing with it trying so hard to manage my aniexty to the best that I can..