I have been dealing with Anxiety for about a year now. Me and my boyfriend were together for 2years before parting for about a 18 months, we got back together march last year so we have nearly been back together a year. hes been helping me with my anxiety/ panic attacks. my anxiety mostly consisted of panic attacks and not being able to sleep (sleep anxiety) but the last few weeks its changed i am sleeping better at the minute and haven't had any panic attacks but now i have high anxiety about things that never really got to me like. hes always been really blunt on text messages, ever since i met him. and we have never been the type of couple to spend every day together! we have time apart. that is how its always been. but now all of these things are getting too me!? like i keep thinking he doesn't love me and that he doesn't want to be with me. i keep telling myself that hes only with me because he feels sorry for me because of my anxiety and panic attacks!? I asked him if that is why he was with me and he replied saying that i am being "Silly" and he loves me and wants to be with me! :) i cant seem to convince myself that this is true. i want to spend more time with him but just feel so needy! I am really scared that i am going to end up breaking this relationship because i am always doubting him and his words. PLEASE HELP!
try to relax and take his word for it that he wants to be with you. The relationship will work itself out.
showing him constantly that you are anxious about the relationship may be a turn off for him. So try to remain positive.
The fact is that sometimes relationships, don’t always work out . that does not mean that one or the other is a bad person, it just means that it’s not a good fit for some reason.
and some relationships do work out. Not sure how long you’ve been together but always remember that you cannot force a relationship. Both people have to want it. For now, enjoy his company with confidence and let go of the "what if ".
you Will be OK no matter what happens.