My husband left me a couple of years ago at Christmas with small children, completely out of the blue and for the most ridiculous reasons and left me with really bad anxiety. I have since moved on and met a really great guy. It's been a year but every now and then I get panicky, I've explained to him a little bit of how I feel, he says all the right things to reassure me but at times he doesn't say anything to reassure me and I panic that he's going to just up and leave me. Maybe he's not feeling the same way anymore like my husband wasn't. At times its so consuming and I don't tell him because I don't want to be a burden but I go over and over it in my head and think because I'm thinking it so much it must be annoying him too, but he doesnt even know half the time. My head hurts. I just want to feel normal and good enough. If anyone understands what I'm going trough, please help
Hi Annie
My partner left me nearly 3 weeks ago after 20 years said he doesn't love me.
My nerves are shattered and I go into panic mode it's not cause he left me it's cause I think I can't cope on my own.
Insecurity are normal especially if your husband left. The thought of someone else leaving can be daunting. Try not to overthink things.
Hi annie
Im in the same boat as you
2years ago i got made redundant and soon developed anxiety and depression. I got a job up until 4weeks ago when they dismissed me because of anxiety. I rent my property from council but cant get help as gf owns a property so im very reliant on her to pay rent. Now she dont say to me i love you anymore she just said i never signed up to this. So i feel she will leave me soon and i will end up living on streets at ahe of 54.
This must be very difficult for you
Are you getting help? I'm sure she never signed up for it but love will keep you together.
I'm 50 this year and I'm worried no will love me again.
Im sure someone will love you again. Your only 50 im anxious because i dont want to lose what i got selfish i know but i find im to old to be homeless. But answer to your question yes thete is someone out there waiting for you x
Hi Annie, my husband left me on New Year's Eve with 2 children. Are you on any meds? I'm on sertaline which has helped me. Was only on them 5days when he left and had terrible side effects plus children to look after. Anxiety is a horrible illness xxx