I have just turn 33 years old I'm still living at home and still single. All my friends are now in relationships I'm the last one. I honestly feel so depressed about this I really feel like I'll nevér meet anyone. I'm so behind. Even at work everyone is with someone. I feel like I've nothing in common with anyone. When I do meet guys all they want is sex.. San I'm not making this up as they tell me to my face all i want is sex! I'm don't think I'm stunning but I'm not ugly either. I feel like I should speak to my doctor about this but is this eaatung her time as it's not her fault my life hasn't turned out like I hoped
Guys are like rabbits. They will just jump on anything. I had a rabbit and it would hump my basketball all day. So don't take it personally. Just accept it and say No to them. A real man will be a rabbit that is chill and not be a fast talker.
Don’t let society tell you how or where to live. I have older parents who I choose to help and I’m sure people judge me for it but it costs me more to help my family than it did living on my own/with others. Many relationships fail. I’m a guy so I know the male perspective and as someone with anxiety it kind of keeps me from meaningful relationships as well. Sometimes I feel behind myself as most of my friends have kids and stuff yet here I am. Relationships fail at a much higher rate than they succeed anyways. I, personally, prefer my friendships over a relationship although I may have casual encounters I don’t think i can take care of myself AND someone else right now. My last relationship went on for 5 years of pain and suffering and it took a lot of that desire away. It at least sounds like you know WHY you’re upset. At least those guys that tell you that are honest cause I know a lot of guys that would tell you they’re in love with you but have like 6 side girls cause all they want is sex but girls tend to be a lot less interested in the casual hookup. I’m sure something will work out at some point but try to take some of the pressure off yourself expecting it to materialize, love yourself first.
Amen brotha.
Hey im 35 and only recently got my own place and ive never had a relationship. I try hard to tell myself my time is not the same as everyone elses snd I need to be ok with me and who I am before thinking of relationships. It might feel like the world is caving in, but it isn't. Unfortunately anxiety foes that... everyones journey is different. I probably am ugly in the eyes of men though, so thats where we differ.
Well, I guess at least those guys are honest & you can just say no instead of them stringing you along - that's actually something to be happy about for it saves you a lot of emotional pain & issues in the end.
Try not to stress yourself out too much - you will find someone eventually & then it will be worth it. Those are things you can't force, they will happen when they will happen unless you just want to have someone to not be alone & end up unhappy because there is so much lacking in the end - there are plenty of people who do that, I guess a lot of them would rather be single in the end but they just can't be alone, so they stay. Having a meaningful relationship & connection is so much more fulfilling, believe me. Don't compare yourself to other people when you can only "lose" - I know it is hard not to but you just go at your own speed, nothing wrong with that. Just use the time as a single to do the things you enjoy, taking good care of you & growing as a person. There is nothing wrong about being single at your age, just enjoy your life & the rest will follow. Find your own place if living at home still bothers you. I wish you good luck.