Hi Polly,
I'm so sorry you are still having the shortness of breath. How long has it been now?
I had a great day 2 days ago and it came right back. Like you just can't take a good deep breath without really struggling. It's so tiring and uncomfortable. I'm so frustrated with it that I cry. No doctors can figure it out, leaving me even more worried. I'm not convinced it's asthma for me either. Does your shortness of breath get better when you rest and get worse when you are up and doing things? Mine is like that.
As for the anxiety, it rears its ugly head as soon as I wake up. Mornings are awful for me. It feels like I'm so nervous, shaking, inside trembling, and no appetite to eat. Sometimes there is fear and doom and gloom. It usually lasts all day until about 5pm. I've lost so much weight and can't afford to loose anymore. I was given Xanax but haven't tried it because of the horrible addiction it can cause. I bought Aspen from Bach Flower remedies and it helps take the edge off. I also take GABA every morning. It's been getting me thru so far. I am praying the anxiety doesn't get any worse.
Depression sets in at the end of my period and it's horribly debilitating. I've never had any of these symptoms in my life. I keep telling myself it's just perimenopause and it will pass, but at times you wonder if you are dying from something serious. I've been to the ER and doctors so much they are sick of me, they just keep telling me I have an anxiety disorder. Really??? I've never had depression, anxiety, or breathing problems a day in my 41 years of life and why the depression right after my period is ending each month? They can't give me an answer but Xanax and antidepressants, which I just can't bring myself to take.
I'm super emotional and cry so easily it's just insane. I have to carry tissue with me at all times. I've NEVER been like this. I was a medical assistant for 14 years and saw my share of sad situations and held it together, nothing bothered me. If I was working now, I would be a sobbing mess all thru my shift. Thank God my husband is allowing me to be home during this awful, trying time.
I hope us ladies can get some relief soon, and we all need to stick together for support. It helps so much to know I am not alone. If anyone needs any support, I am always open to lending an ear. My email is [email removed], please feel free to reach out. We could all gain strength and support from one another. Polly, my heart goes out to you. I am right here with you going thru this. Hugs
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