Any idea about what this might be?

Hello, long story-short : 

I'm 21 year old male, living in a country where I am so afraid of the surgery because it is riskier and less developed than it is in the developed countries so I kinda have to suck it up until I have the chance to get it abroad,

I've been on a high fiber diet for almost a year and it's way better, doesn't hurt anymore, I wash the area after every bowel movement so no itching occurs. It used to hurt so much when I was constipated.

Moreover, every time I have a bowel movement and I sit more than few minutes the hemorrhoid(if it is one) gets so swollen it's like a piece of meat stuck to the anus so I have to have a bowel movement and immediately get up, it is also so sensitive when I have one.

It's draining me psychologically that I cannot receive help. I bought some hemorrhoid cream back when I wouldn't eat much fiber and bowel movements were so painful but nowadays it is not needed as the swelling goes back no normal after I get up. However, it's still hanging outside of my anus.

I remember being 16 and feeling something not right on my butt, but never had any issues with it until recently (a year or so). I've never been told to eat a high fiber diet, not to strain and so on so I had to find this out by myself the hard way.

I would kindly ask for your help and appreciate your help and opinions so much.

I cannot really tell if it's an internal or an external one (I see a skin tag on the hemorrhoid if I'm not wrong) nor can tell the grade of it.  Oh, I think I have specified, it's always hanging on my anus.

I have some pictures of my butt pushing as much as I could to be able to see every bit of it. Sorry if this is nasty.

Warning : Not safe for work - destroyed alien looking butt ahead, proceed with caution sad

I hope I did not break any rules.

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I’m no doctor but I have been suffering with butt issues for 14 years. The pain you describe sounds like fissures, had them and the pain was unbearable, they used to make a cream in the uk called glycerol trinitrate. No longer made now but creams which contain glycerol normally help. When you say it looks like you have a skin tag these are caused by fissures in my history. Also when you say it gets bigger and goes when you have movements it also sounds like you could have an abscess which is very common when you have issues as it’s not the hygienist of places no matter how much you clean. I have had 3 surgeries on piles, fissures, skin tags, even Botox to relax my muscles and now I have an abscess which I have to burst myself every couple of days as I’m scared of seeing the doctor, I myself did not recover very well after the surgeries so reluctant to go back. Not everyone is the same. Hope you get sorted, sympathise with you. All the best

Hello i am sorry that you are having Such a bad time/experience . Before i continue i would like to say that i am by no means a medical expert nor do i have any medical degree i am writing this reply from my experience .

from what i have read i think you have internal hemorrhoids.

I have had a similar issue . My problem was that My hemorrhoids were very big and it was hanging out my anus hole . I had like 3-4 big Hemorrhoids . Like you i had a bad time when i constipated . usually after i constipate i experience severe burning sensation as well as bleeding. so i reached a point where i could not handle it and i was having a bad time both physically and mentally . i could not lift weights. i could not run i could not walk jump you name it i cant do it because this thing comes through my anus hole and then gets irritated and swells . so last month i consulted a Gastroenterologist and he advised me to undergo  hemorrhoid banding . if you want to know more about it just google it ( its a simple procedure ) . i have Done it twice and am going to it again next week . Previously i had 3 hemorrhoids hanging from my hole now i just have one.i highly recommend you to consult a GOOD DOCTOR because its only going to get worse if you dont get help ( not trying to get you into panic mode ) but don't let it get worse .

ps : do you have any mucus coming out of your anus ( mucus which smells like rotten fish ) ?

  

Forgot to say, use a step under your feet when on the toilet, no straining at all when your legs are raised 👍 works a treat

Hello, gemma!

Sorry you had to deal with butt issues for 14 years, sometimes it gets to a point where it's making the life so hard, it's such a nuisance and, in my opinion, a cruel joke thrown at us , butt sufferers.

For example, to prevent hemorrhoids, to prevent constipation and all the pain associated with constipation when one suffers from hemorrhoids, one has to eat a lot of fiber, preferably daily which, in turn, makes one go to the bathroom almost daily, if not daily therefore daily swelling and discomfort down there.

I think it was a fissure back when I would ignore all the fiber I was supposed to take, but it never happened again. And if it does I'll use some cream, that's the least of my problems.

I highly doubt it's an abscess as I have no such symptoms associated with an abscess.

Thanks for the kind words and I hope you'll find the kind of doctor you truly need to ease your butt issues

Hello, daniel !

Unfortunately pictures were deleted and I could upload them but I am kinda hesitant to just post them here where you scroll down to read the replies and a giant pictures of my butt would pop up. I can send them in private, if I can.

Yes, I was thinking of an internal hemorrhoid that grew so much it started to prolapse because mother nature thought it was a fun thing to put very sensitive veins in the anal region.

Yes, I can totally relate about them hanging out of the butt. I have never bled and whenever I get constipated they swell and hurt. It was a point in my life where I was always constipated (unless I literally sutff as many vegables in my mouth as I can) and after a bowel movement I would have so much pain when walking.

I know hemorrhoid banding but I heard they cannot do them for external ones (if mine is external), and I really heard horror stories about these supposed simple procedures here.  I really don't know any good doctor  

Edit : No, no mucus, no weird rotten fishy smell, no discharge, no blood.

Hey is the stuff coming out of your anus similar to this ?

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Ok that's good to know , there is no bleeding !

Thank you and same goes for you, all the very best 🙏

There is no such thing as herb that can cure the hemorrhoids, I wish it was, really. 

If it's not severe take diosmin and hesperidin supplements, if not, you have many options of treating them in the doctor's office

also i recommend you to have a glass of cremadiet every day. it is a powder which will help you to avoid constipation, mix one tablespoon of cremadiet with water and and drink it before you go to bed.

anyway you need to consult a doctor . from what i have read it is internal hemorrhoids. make sure to post here when you get this cured .

herbs wont work for severe hemorrhoids 

What herbs are they and have you been cured of severe hemmorhoids. Had on going issues for years and never heard of herbs curing them. Don’t think there is actually a cure! I’m sure the NHS and other medical professionals would of snapped them up and been making millions, would of been saving millions on surgery also. Maybe herbs could help with bowel movements. My bathroom cabinet is like a pharmacy and welcome any cures 👍