Stacy, You have been going through a horrible time and now you believe surgery is emminent? That said, I had a colo-resection and 12 in. sigmoid colon was removed back in 7/6/16. I still have rectum, and I still have anus. I have no stoma/ostomy etc. And pooping even with daily laxatives (switched from toxic Miralax (mentally and physiologically when taken for months - instead of bottle's directions of only 7 days and we all know there is a reason manufacturer's put take only 7 days warning on bottle - for distinct reasons. Miralax became toxic in my body's system and I began to have heart arrythmia, atrial fib, tachycardia after months of ingesting polyethylene glycol. I was having problems prior to surgery with above heart issues until I went to emerg. room and enema given and electrolytes, calcium, magnesium, and other nutrients colon had constipatively seized and would not allow body to have and process nutrionally. Following surgery, no heart issues, until about two or so weeks post surgery when I realized that I was not going to be able fecal eliminate (poop) without chemical assistance or a stoma/ostomy. Surgeon said no ostomy, etc. And I finally convinced him to switch me off Miralax due to horrific mental, and physiological side effects. On Senakot S (he wanted me on Senna tabs) I knew that I would not be able to defecate on Senna tabs. If not a laporoscopic surgery and I was cut from immed. below belly button all the way down into my pubic area, then all muscles, tendons, ligaments, nerves, and tissues, etc. all the way down to the sacrum and pubic bone are completely cut away and recovery time is difficult. Yes, it is. When I use to poop, I could use those abdominal muscles that were cut to help push fecal matter, and post surgery there is nothing until - only for me and no one else - until around December (beginning) that I could feel muscles in abdomen rejoining (when I would cough, or push on commode to defecate, etc.) I had an abscess the size per surgeon of a grapefruit and it was inside my colon and it was lying encased in colon down in my vaginal cavity - and sitting there. My sigmoid colon was severely infected with abscess' infection and the pain - at times well, indescribable pre-surgery (again ended up in emerg. room because again colon had seized all my body's nutrients that I had supplied my body, and the nutrients are body makes on it's own were not being metabolized. Surgeon said post-surgery "What a mess, what a mess down there - you had a grapefruit-sized abscess..." such caring medical terms grrr. I will be honest with you. I with two Senakot S pills every early evening (this is not good for colon and eventually - whenever it happens - will permanently hurt colon (musosal lining, and colon's peristatlsis, and everything will stop, at some point. I pray not. I pray that I will continue - and this is the hard part to tell you about me - that I will continue every day to dig my fecal matter (poop) out of my anus as it finally drops down into where the sigmoid colong USE TO BE. The sigmoid colon had longitudinal muscles and some circular muscles plus stool use to receive water/fluid to help plump it and move poop on down into rectum, then out anus. Not the case anymore, unfortunately, Stacy. Now, I put on plastic gloves and I pick poop out at least once sometimes twice daily. I first post surgery had small bowel movements, then nothing, then Miralax, then smaller less frequent bm's; then Senakot and I have been off and on using Metamucil and this is extremely important to use it if not once a day to aid your poop to come down into rectum, then at least take Metamuci every other day or so - to your needs. You will know when your bm's are getting rock hard and stuck so badly. There again, none of what I have shared here is the same for every colo-resection patient. Individual outcomes. I have read a lot. With abscess sitting inside of you, for me, that is and was a ticking infectious time bomb and if not encased in your colon and colon ruptures, sepsis (possible), and well, abscess needs to come out - must come out, unless you are unable (age and other health reasons) to withstand surgery and a for some - major change in fecal elimination habits, Stacy. Message me anytime, if I have left anything out you need answers to please let me know. I am here for you as others in this forum have been here for me thanks to this (your) wonderful thread that you posted a good while back. Oh, I eat softer foods; surgeon had informed, "You can eat anything - no diet restriction for you." Untruth. I tried whole wheat, bulky foods like beans, etc. And for only me - dariy is a no-no. Constipates me even worse - if that is possible. I want to have hope that as my abdominal muscles, nerves, etc. continue to mend that I may be able to someday defecate without any laxatives. However, Stacy, defecation is vitally important just like as you know - kidney function. So I will continue with Senakot S x 2 (little orange pills) and I began about 2 wks. ago taking Kroger generic - sooo much less expensive $14 compared to $4 per box of 20 pills. Please, please let me know how you are doing. Updates, please. I do care. I've been there done that, and continuing to prayerfully to God, heal. Jade