Hi Howard,
First, thanks for the kind words. Yes, it sounds like we had good timing. I haven't been here much lately for a number of reasons, not do I seem to get notifications. (A little off topic, but do you know what happened to the whole FLA group? Last time I checked, years ago, some were starting to have relapses.)
So, I just learned something about the Speedicath. Didn't realize the last couple of inches weren't lubricated till you told me! I get pretty close to the end myself, so tonight I'll see if I go past that part or not.
If external lube doesn't stick to the catheter surface without the coating, have you tried to coat generously the entire catheter? I did that for a bit when I had some difficulties. What happens is that the lube will then get into your urethra a little, so hopefully when you get to the dry part, it will slide easier. If you try it, let me know how it works out. If that doesn't work, maybe try cathing in different positions, like sitting, where the urethra may be shorter although not sure how convenient that might be.
But if none of that works out, why do you have to go from 12F to 16? Isn't there a 14F? And I guess if nothing works out, you might have to start trying either other hydrophilic's, or non-coated coude catheters that should take external lube better.
So with me, funny thing going on and not sure why, but have a few theories. A couple of months ago had a UTI so was doing a lot of cathing, maybe six times a day. Treated it and since then, no need to cath at all. None. And the crazy thing is that I don't even need to cath if my bladder is holding more than 400ml, which in the past made it impossible for my detrussor's to push the urine past the prostate.
I am going to try and locate my dusty bladder scanner -- haven't used it for years -- and do my own urodynamic study to see if anything has changed, especially with my diverticulum, but it is odd. It's almost like I turned back the clock to a point ten years before I even had to cath!
That said, I did notice that if I don't cath at all my PVR's are high and between my void and PVR, it's definitely over 400ml, which means the bladder may eventually stretch, so as a compromise, even though I don't have to, I'm cathing twice a day, morning and before bedtime, just to give the empty the bladder completely at least twice and also make sure my kidneys are protected, even though I don't think I'm anywhere near a back pressure situation that I had just before I started CIC.
Again, not quite sure why this happened after all these years. One possiblity is that I started doing pelvic floor exercises for an abdominal muscular issue. Maybe 15-20 minutes each morning. Maybe that is it?
Let me know how things go and again, good hearing from you.
Jim