[quote:45e466da69=\"motorsportgirli\"]Hi Melbi and Chimera
It wasnt specific remarks it was things like
\"There is no need to be critical or inconsiderate to other people. This is hard enough and overweight people have enough of a stigma attached to us without being attacked verbally. \"
\"Just ignore any snide remarks etc. and continue with your supporting and friendly posts\"
Im afraid as they were posted in reply to the only other person it could really have been, then they were aimed at me.
As for calming down, im perfectly in control. Im big enough and old enough to deal with posts like that but I wanted to say bye to those girls ive got to know on here.
Right! I am going to put this childish topic to bed once and for all.
I do not judge people here or anywhere so this post is not to be taken as an attack on anyone 'just because they feel they are being targetted'.
Motorsportgirl, you say in the above post that you are big enough and old enough to deal with post that you feel are aimed at attacking or insulting you. You have refused on several occasions to use the alert button but readily come here and start unrest on the forum.
If you are big enough and old enough to deal with posts that you see as being targetted at you in an insulting manner, then please do so and leave it off the boards, or report them using the alert button.
They are your 2 choices.
Anymore posts that are off topic and are seen to bring unrest amongst other posters will be deleted and the adminstrators notified of the person causing the unrest.
This site is huge and managed by a handful of very hard working people behind the scenes. They do not have the time (and probably the inclination) to come here day in and day out trying to sort out childish playground banter.
Motorsportgirl, i have nothing personal against you but as a moderator, I have the responsibilty to ensure, along with other moderators, to keep these forums a peaceful and safe place for ALL people accessing this site.
Now, I'm genuinely sorry to have had to say the above, but this has gone on for way too long and it is ruining what used to be an excellent forum on PUKE.
So you have 2 more choices here: Fall in line with the conditions of service or leave.
This thread is now locked as there will be no more discussions on this ridiculous topic.
Either continue contributing in a positive way or stop posting altogether.
My apologies to any other posters here and I do hope all this ridiculous unrest hasn't put you off posting.
For those that motorsportgirl says you no longer want to post here and would rather email amongst yourselves with motorsportgirl, then please feel free to do so.
Melbi
(who is now off to put her feet up after a long day with working with small children and has no intentions of having to deal with adults behave in the same manner as they do) (if not worse)