Hi Heather, thank you very much for getting me up to date on the BCSH's new guidelines - that's a great help. I had proposed to go with him into his appointment, but he is terrified it will be interpreted as a criticism or as "confrontational" by his GP.
I was diagnosed with low B12 in March, and had to exert some pressure over the past 8 months to get myself this far with treatment (I have low B12, ferritin and a gastroscopy next week). There seems to have been a poor grasp of the danger of prolonged low B12 at the practice until recently.
Sadly, my partner doesn't realise how "foggy" he is becoming, and is completely unable to memorise anything. But I doubt this is apparent in a 10 minute appointment! As a result, he comes back from his GP without detailed information, even though he tries. I'm fearful that he will slide into senile dementia if I don't manage his health actively, including making sure his GP is covering all the bases.
I have mild PA myself, and received the loading jabs. I've moved from quarterly to monthly jabs recently, plus iron supplements, and believe I am improving as a result. It was only my reading on PA for myself that flagged up the issues with the Metformin he was taking. I insisted he was tested, et voila, he was very low.
Although his GP blustered that they'd been checking him regularly in the past, he'd received no jabs or tablets for it, and I can't help but think they are - sorry - "covering their asses". He had, after all, been taking Metformin for about 15 years, so it's unlikely that significant B12 deficiency has only arisen suddenly in the last 6 months.
I am considering typing "bullet points" on a card for him to take with him, so he asks the right questions, and writes down the answers. But I know he will be uncomfortable with this. I need his GP to feed back to me, as I have developed some concept of the condition, which my partner simply cannot manage to do anymore.
Do you think it would be in order for me to write to her prior to his appointment to explain my concerns and ask her - with his consent - to keep me informed of his results?