Balanitis for 2 years. It's destroyed my life. Someone, please help me

Can you get to a Family Doctor?  Have you ever been to a Specialist Sexual Health Service?  You live on the States?  No idea what Rx is?!  As I have stated, unless you get to the right people who can get you the right medication AND you start using it correctly, you are simply going to go round in circles achieving nothing - what to get fixed? then see someone that can actually help .....

Hey, update. I went back to my primary care. He's sending me to a urologist for a circumcision. That's what the dermatologist wrote in my notes....WHen asked about test, they said they don't know which tests to run....because they have no idea what it is. I stopped used the creams and now the skin is cracking. it stings like hell just to clean it with water....I really don't want a circumcision but what else to do I do? This could make it worse? I mean, it could infect the incision or something, no? I just wanted to cure it. I'm going to order some Emu-aid right now...Pray it works...I sometimes wonder if i could figure out a way to keep the fore skin pulled back, if whatever is causing it would die off.....but i don't know how image

Do what ever you think is best for you. Try what the other guys are saying. It's up to you whatever you do. Take care ken