BALANITIS OVER 10 YEARS PLS HELP 26M

Hey guys, I really do not know what to do. This is hurting my confidence so much and pushes me down.. Ill get all the details that i can remember and hope for an input from someone here that has managed to cure it.

Since I was a teen I couldn’t retract my foreskin and didnt think too much of it. Then I understood that I actually needed to retract it so that it would work the way its intented to. So I kinda forced it and pulled the foreskin back along days and in one day I managed to “rip” it of my glands.

Since then I had a lot of difficulties to fully retract it which caused a lot of smegma issues underneath. I can now retract it more or less well and the smegma only appears once hygiene isnt on point.

My symptoms since ever, and I mean my whole life:

  • Penis glands very painful to touch

  • Red spots

  • Red areas

  • Glands always moist (I feel like my urine drops a few times and stays in the foreskin)

  • Lately I have had few bigger red spots that turn whiteish and then disappear

If for example I have an erection and my glands are dry, there is NO PAIN AT ALL. ITS LIKE I HAVE A NORMAL DI*K. But it still makes me feel like crap most of the times.

I also had eczema on my elbows and still have in my ears. AND MY GENITALS AND ASS ARE ITCHING MY WHOLE LIFE, its insane.

I have been to urologists and dermatologists. All urologists said that its balanitis and gave me some basic ass creams and pills that didnt do anything.

Dermatologist said its eczema, I tried some creams for that too.

I remember I once bought some kind of magic cream in Italy that was made specifically for not to be scratching my itchy areas and it worked but i have no idea what it was.

Please hop into the convo, I would have circumsicion, because if this isnt fixed with that then I wont be able to function normally.

Thank you