Hi Nicola,
I have seen one or two summers more than you, but congrats on your up and coming 21st.
You are so right about stopping to consider whether it is a good time to start or not. However, you have to also consider why you have been prescribed the medication and is it really right to stop just for a birthday, the number of years are insignificant in reality to your future health and well being is.
You must discuss this with your Dr because she/he has prescribed this and, obviously, there is a reason why. When we are given a helping hand we should not say, "I'm sorry it isn't convenient". A major part of recovery here is taking control of your illness and if you read many, many posts you will appreciate that many, many people here are bravely doing that even though they may be very, very scared.
If your Dr says okay wait a couple of weeks then there is no problem and I hope you have a great and safe time, I hope you do not look at it as a final blast/binge before going on meds, now that would be irresposnible. Hopefully (only if the Dr gives you the green light!) you have a friend that is understanding of your situation and a bit more careful about looking after you during the celebration. Life is a beautiful gift and it should be celebrated every day, not just one day a year.
Either way, all we (should) want for you (here) is to get better (not to encourage you to do something your Dr may totally advise against). No one is patronising here, but you have made an excellent start by asking if you should or shouldn't and not just postponing them on your own. Now, that is taking responsibility of your own future at what should be a wonderful time in your life. You have your whole future ahead of you, please don't throw it away just for one day!
One thing at a time Nicola, you cannot rush Cita she has to do her job.
Sorry to put, what you may feel is a downer on your post. In reality you should be proud for being so brave and taking the first step towards getting better.
Please, always remember we are here for you because we know what you are going to be going through, from being first prescribed the meds all the way through the side effects and out the other side!
We are not here to tell you what you want to hear in going against your Dr's advice, we are here to support you in a non medical way. You will soon find understanding friends and become part of this Family, a Family that cares!
Never, ever worry about how (significant, in this case) or insignificant a question or thought may be, post it and hopefully you will get the right answer(s).
Please go see your Dr asap even if you know the answer, you must have a dialogue with your Dr throughout taking this "sticking plaster for the brain"
Whatever the outcome, Nicola, we wish you well and look forward to many more posts and discussions.
With your best interests at heart.
Regards,
David x