i am really sorry hun but its boundries all the way,
never make a promise you dont keep
or back down on a set punishment
this i know is really hard i have 2 daughters and an Aspergers son so i know its hard . they are all grown now and not a bad lot
not perfect, as you no,know bodies children are, no matter what there parents think.
your son sounds like his very inteligent maybe his board and not being pushed harder enough at school inteligent children get bored and become disruptive if not challenged .
is there anything he could take up after school something phyiscal to tire him out . and i am not accusing you of anything ,but how does he eat , i know kids are a pain like mine, i had 3 all treated the same way.
two eat veg and dinners and the middle wouldnt no matter what i tried . ,just thought it could be something to look at make sure his not taking in to much of anyone food group .his still growing and needs nutition to help his brain devolope as well as his muscles etc
set boundries and no matter how hard he pushes and he will stick to them ,let him no when you say no that you mean it.
but dont forget to reward positve or good behaviour . its tough being a parent i did it alone i know ,
dont listen to other parents who put you down , who think there kids are perfect , because there not .
i think your son is more advanced then his peers and his bored this causes major frustration , find something for him to use that frustration on instead of you .
my middle daughter went thru a stage were she hated me she wrote me horrid painful letters full of reall frustration and my god did hurt , but i rode it and stood firm now we are back to being mother and daugter
, we disagree as differant generations do but we are there for each other as mums and daughters should be . we are not best friends ,she has friends i am her mum and i respet the choices she makes even if i dont agree with them and can see disater ahead ,but i am always there to pick up the pieces children have to learn by there mistakes to grow . sorry iv gone on abit
.might be worth having your sons IQ tested .you might have a little genius .
our grandsons IQ at 2yrs was over a hundred i forget excatly , he was caught early. so wont go thru the frustration that so many gifted children do [hopefully ]
chin up stand firm but always with love even when they hit out at you its tough and apainful but what love isent
.GOOD LUCK ;