Hi. I have been bleeding during sex-not every time but it has happened quite regularly. I think certain positions I am more likely to bleed but there is no set formula. This has resulted in my partner being hospitalised with a kidney infection and became quite serious. This was due to his getting some blood inside him whilst having sex. Everytime we have used condoms they have broken and takes away the sensation for both of us too. Since then I have had all kinds of investigations such as ultrasound, some kind of ?scope, where they put a camera up inside my womb. They said I have a slightly bulky uterus and a small fibroid but that the fibroid is not big enough to consider removal and didn't think it would be causing the problem. In short they have done all the tests they can and told me it is unexplained which basically leaves me and my partner unable to have sex. This is particularly hard as we live quite far away from each other at the moment. The hospital said I could try taking some blood thinners but i really don't know how that would help and I really don't like taking potentially unhelpful medications. I was wondering if anyone knew whether they thought that that the motion from intercourse could cause the fibroid to bleed and really if they had any ideas what else I can do to get this sorted out? I only have bleeding during sex and it doesn't look like period blood more bright red but I don't feel any pain or anything. Thank you.
I was told I have a tilted womb and that can cause spotting during sex. I only notice after when going to the bathroom and wiping, its always there and just a small amount. Been like that for years, its never affected my husband though. I mean, I think it’s even safe to have sex during your period, I’ve never heard it can affect a man that way.