Hi,
I have been working my way methodically through all the possible treatments for AF over the past 3 months. I now seriously think I have a better idea of what works than my consultant! The various creams were all very corrosive and were therefore not workable (bad enough to have the AF pain without feeling as though you're sitting in an acid bath).
I tended to have three basic types of pain - no doubt they will be familiar to you:
1) actually going to the loo which is the razor blade scenario
2) the spasms afterwards. Sometimes the actual BM was almost bearable, but the spasm would always creep up on me, lasting for several hours
3) the sheer discomfort of everything in that area (yes, piles, tags, fissures and Uncle Tom Cobley and all!) being so swollen that normal walking was very uncomfortable.
Anyway - I had botox 5 weeks ago. my consultant cheerfully said that he would scrape the sides of the fissure so there is a fresh wound that will heal faster (fun!) and this caused a LOT of pain afterwards. However, things have gradually improved and I am now verying on positively comfortable!
2 recommendations:
1:
keep a diary of what you eat and what the result is. Take note of any medication you use and how often you use it. Apart from anything else, it is good to know that, eg, last Monday you had x many painkillers and this Monday only y amount. With this diary, you are in a better position to work out what helps and what hinders.
2:
BE TOTALLY SELFISH! You are in a lot of pain: you are not much fun to loved ones like that. It will help everyone long term if you put yourself first. For me this meant really concentrating on diet and water intake. I have alsways eaten loads of fruit and veg, but now live almost excvlusively on it. I NEVER have a sandwich just so I can be done and ready to take the kids somewhere - if we all have to wait 40 mins for my brown rice to cook, then so be it! For me a 'good' diet is avoiding:
- red meat
- bread (whole meal too)
- any processed food
All the food I eat is high in fibre and I still swallow Lactulose. Plus loads of water, of course.
I don't know what wil happen when the botox wears off, but am so much enjoying being alive and having the energy to get on with interesting things. The extra effort in concentrating on diet is well worth while.
If you have tried all the creams, I would (at this stage anyway) reccommend botox and a really serious change of diet.
I'll post again when the botox has worn off.
Best of luck.