Boyfriend broke up with because I'm depressed.

Almost a week ago my boyfriend of 6 months ended the relationship with me, due to my depression getting him down. We loved each other dearly. But he just decided one day he didn't love me anymore and didn't want to handle me. I've been a wreck since and haven't really left my house. Do you think I'll have another chance? He just walked out and hasn't talked to me since. He hasn't been online for days either so... he isn't talking to anyone either. I don't know what to do. I really loved him. And just I get it was getting him upset. But just sad

Kayleigh

Depression is so very common and if your Boyfriend has not had the bottle to stand by you He is not much of a Man, possibly a wimp.?

What has caused your depression, how can we help. Have you seen your GP about your Depression ?

I would not worry that you will not find someone new, life is very exiting when young and new boyfriends are ten a penny, You have learned a life lesson and you WILL find someone more suitable than the last one.

I was like you, although engaged twice, it takes time to meet the soul mate you are looking for

BOB

I'm sorry that you are hurting, Kayleigh...I know at this point its hard to actually believe you will get past this...but you WILL...

I don't know how old you both are, but you sound pretty young... I wish he could have sat down with you and explained to you, in a decent and kind way, why he felt he needed to break up. But maybe he just didn't know how to do that..

You didn't do anything 'wrong' Kayleigh, so you don't have to worry about 'getting another chance'.... you need some kind of help or advice from someone who can actually understand and help you.

I would really advise you talk to a counselor or therapist about this...not 'to get back together again' because that will NOT solve the problem (as much as you would like to believe that is the answer) ...but as to what is causing your depression and you can start taking steps to deal with it and even overcome it...Please...consider doing this. Its the only 'real' answer.

Hi Kayleigh - sorry to read of your situation. The first thing you need to do is deal with your depression. Make a doctors appointment for possible meds and a referral to a counsellor/psychologist to discuss your problems. Depression will not cure itself, and neither will distracting oneself. As for your relationship - give him space. Let him work through whatever he's working through and use the time to stabilize yourself. If he has really made the decision to go on without you, you need to work on a stategy to live without him. Someone better will come along.