Hello Heather
Are you in the UK? I only ask this because I do not know how other countries health schemes work.
So I am in UK and had my 70th birthday in July - had my surgery on 16th July which was for my very bad bunion and two hammer toes. It was done on the NHS.
I too did not know whether to go ahead. I saw a surgeon in 2006 and he said I would need surgery. I then got breast cancer and everything went on hold for 2 years intensive treatement and 5 years of six monthly checks. This year I decided to pick up where I left off.
I chose another surgeon and asked his opinion. My big toe was right under my second toe causing the one hammer to to be 'clawed' very bad and 'locked'. Well he explained everything to me and deep down I was still not brave enough because I was not in pain! I could put up with trying to wear extra wide shoes with deep fronts.
One of my questions was can this deformity get any worse? He said it can get 100% worse especially given family history of bunions. He also went on to say that if I wait for the pain the mechanics of my foot are bad enough now and to wait longer makes his work obviously not as easy.
So I came back home and then asked to see him again - with another list of questions! I thought at that stage he would show me the door but he didn't he was very patient and also said that falls in the elderly can be due to these foot deformities such as mine.
So my advice - can you get a second opinion to help you weigh up the pros and cons? I went for this surgeon because he gave me the time of day in answering all my questions.
It is not easy and you will need someone to look after you.
So I am off for my second appointoment tomorrow to have the pins removed from the hammer toes, I have my 'moon boot' on and am now weight bearing. Since weight bearing, two weeks after the op, it has been better to feel more like me.
I don't know if this has helped. Oh! Yes when my surgeon came and saw me after the op he said 'I think you will be pestering me to do the other foot soon.'
Well - I am NOT pestering him yet and may well say you can book me in for next year (will be 72 then) when I have recovered from this.
Mind you it is amazing to see a foot that doesn't look like yours on the end of your leg and now my other foot looks quite peculiar and that was the 'best' one.
I did do an awful lot of reading on this site before hand and 'yes' in some ways it helped and in other ways it put me off. Remember we are all individual and at our time of life we do not have to be answerable to an employer.
I did feel a wobble, can't go ahead because of responsibilities, because of my 92 year old Mum would not get her once a week outing and to come to us for Sunday lunch. This guilt is something I am having to cope with - she is incredible and takes care of herself - her balance is terrible and she has bunions!
Good luck with your decision and I do hope someone else of our age comes forward.