thats totally your anxiety.. even if you’ve got a wart that decided to pop up. those aren’t painful. i think youd feel a herpes outbreak before a wart. dont worry tho, bc i understand your worries!! just literally waiting anyday for something to happen.. the anticipation n not fully knowing makes it worse. the best thing you can do it kind wait it out, and see if anything pops up for him to swab. i feel like if you had a active lesion , shedding could be picked up rather it was a open sore or not. 
but the burning on the inside ive dealt with that for a long time, it happens from time to time, not sure why and neither does my ob.
hmm.. im not sure.. personally.. that does not look like herpes to me if it is, that’s really a new type of area of a ob I’ve never seen it like that before.. is that the area of skin that was swabbed? whats the texture of the skin in that area like?
wanted to update…Just went back in on Monday for anal irritation and Anal STD testing. Checked rectally and vaginally for Gonno and Chlam and results were
negative. Assuming I am STD free now but still doesnt explain how I feel 8 months after suspected exposure with a new partner (oral, anal and vaginal sex). My symptoms and Google have me thinking I have something horrible.