I noticed a large, red bump about two months ago and was at first painful to touch, how i noticed it. i did what you shouldnt and squeezed it, and then it became smaller but has still lingered since. it is not painful, but has caused me a lot of anxiety. i initially tried treating as a boil with warm compress for several weeks but it didn’t change drastically. i have received oral sex in months prior but had not had intercourse in over a year and have been tested since then. anyone know what it could be or how to get rid of?