hi. this question is not meant to offend anyone. I have realised that my partner is quite selfish and will put his needs before mine, I have also realised that he will very often talk about himself and his life and not ask about me. can this be related to anxiety or is he just ... not that in to me?
dont think that he isnt into you! Even I just go on speaking about myself. Trust me we are not selfish. Idk even i dont ask my girl how she is. i feel sorry after reading this thread tho ;-;. have a talk with him regarding this. just tell him that you dont like this.I think men like it straight forward.
tbh my health anxiety has made me only focus on myself and my needs. i dont mean to do that its just how it is and how ive become. it seems like im selfish and self absorbed. i rarely ask my wife how she is feeling , i tend to talk about myself my life and my problems. my wife knows i love her and just puts up with my ways and knows its not my fault. she never gets on my case about it which makes me relax a bit better.im sure he loves you but the condition is getting the better of him and making him depressed agitated and a bit numb ( not unemotional). it beats you down and you cant be arsed at times with anything or anyone.