Can someone look at this ??please !

i get these little skin cracks on my perineum always the same spot i went to the doctor and they say they can never see anything and they go away so quickly its hard to get it looked at. It doesnt burn or itch, doesnt blister or scab it just shows up like a skin crack but i heard that herpes can do that sometimes and it worries me since its always the same spot . does this look like herpes?
ps: ive had a handful of children so i have scarring on my perineum but not sure if that is related

not herpes i have a similar issue just try to be gentle in rhe area and keep moisturized. also try to use baby wipes when using the rest room