hey guys i wrote a discussion about this yesterday but still feel in desperate need of help. on the weekend my friend caught me doing something embarrasing and found something out about me i really didnt want anyone to know. at the time i lied badly to cover it and im not sure my friend knows what i was really doing later i made a joke of the event to try and show i wasnt embarrased although it has deeply scarred me and there hasnt been one moment where i havnt at least sub conciously been thinking about it. at most points its the only thing i can think of and at some points i can put it to the back of my head but am still thinking about it. im worried he is going to tell all my other friends the real story or even the lie i made up as i acted confortable about it. although the lie is still slighty embarrasing and may make people suspicious of what i was really doing. I have since seen the friend with other people since and he hasnt mentioned it. but i feel like he is desparate to tell one of my friends in particular and his opinion is someone who i value alot. im worried if this gets out my friends will look at me differentely. im also very anxious of the moment he brings it up and i have to explain the story to my friend. i have never been bullied before and my friends are not very judgemental people as they are quite open about thier own demons but im still so anxious about it and really dont want them to know. sorry for the over explanation i just want to know if someone can help with my exact situatuon
i also forgot to mention that the embarrasing thing that i did is the opposite of what my friends think i do and i have lied to them about doing it when they ask
Tell them the truth 👍Why worry if it's the opposite of what they think. Good luck🙌
If you want to talk you can PM me if you want it seems like this is eating you up.👍If you want you don't have too if you don't feel comfortable talking about it. I'm here for you either way if it's because you're feeling down or need help.
Hi I agree with Ashley , I think you should tell the truth if it's affecting yourlife this much and causing you to be completely anxious why not approach this friend and tell him the truth , if he's a real friend I'm sure he will keep it between you both , sorry I can't be more helpful x
Truth always sets you free ! Nothing is as bad as you think it can always be worked on or out.. free yourself from what ever it is... If your friend was bothered am sure he or she would be the one bringing it up I really wouldn't worry about it anymore...