Hi tbulley, I read your response to Kathleen with interest and some sympathy - with interest because I've rarely seen such a castigation of doctors, and with sympathy because of your obvious frustration at your unsatisfactory treatment.
You listed:
" not motivated to treat patients as individuals" (? lazy and rigid in their approach)
" too easily prescribe drugs" (? incompetent)
"incentives from drug companies" (? corrupt)
"incomplete understanding of the illness" (? not properly trained or not very bright)
" suggests I should be using Prolia without any reflection on other options" (? unprofessional)
" malpractice" re. his views on Vit D (speaks for itself).
" does not advise me on supplements, diet or exercise" (? negligent).
Were you to put these views to your doctor he could well initiate legal action.
I completely accept that these are your strongly held views and I think it's awful that any doctor, albeit unknowingly, would have his patient in this state. You are obviously a very intelligent and resourceful woman and yet - here you are! Does this doctor have a clue about your anger and concerns? If he doesn't, he should! If he does, then get another specialist - NOT a GP . . . A GP knows a little about a large range of medical conditions and therefore is spread very thinly . A specialist knows a lot about very little. Both have a value.
I have worked in 4 major city hospitals over 37 years as a paramedic and it was plenty of time to form a view about the profession - from junior doctors to consultants. Doctors are like any other workers:
I've met lazy ones, ones I wouldn't consult, competent ones, world-class inspirational ones. I've seen those with total dedication to their patients - whose family life and marriages have therefore suffered badly, and those, who though very ill themselves, just kept working until the end. I'm sure we all know ordinary people like this also.
However, I have never encountered a doctor who was in medicine for the money - as those who practice other professions often are. To me, they genuinely want the best for their patients, though, of course, some of them fail abysmally in this. Your post vividly draws attention to this deficit.
Finally, you said at the start of your post "I am trying to educate myself on my condition and how it should be treated". Are you saying you need to know more? Great. But becoming your own doctor, as it were, I think is a mistake - and an isolated place. A half-way position would perhaps be to 'unearth' a really good specialist who has studied, and practiced, and supervised, and researched the area for decades.. . He HAS to know more than you at present and would be more than able to discuss your concerns and answer your probing questions. You never know, both of you may enjoy it !!
Kind Regards, J