Hi Jean,
It may just be early days for you as to whether day or night is the best time. We are all so different as Kate said, it takes time.
What is good for one of us may not be good for the other, but at least you are here and by posting anything at all however insignificant a question it may appear, you will find advice and support which you then mould to your own requirements.
One piece of advice I'll pick up on is forget about alcohol for the time being and concentrate on letting Cita do its job.
You have a ways to go before you begin to feel the benefits; then again you may be lucky and it may get to work quicker, there is no real time with this one. So, be patient remember that Cita causes anxiety to be able to treat it (that caught me out!), but after a while things will level out.
In the meantime a healthy diet, exercise out doors as we def need at least 10 mins of sunshine a day and you could looking into the benefits of B6 and D3 to boost yer vit levels which can help the old serotonin levels.
If you get up in the morning and feel like staying in bed then, stay in bed (if you can) when you feel good get up and enjoy the day ahead. Another importanat thing to do is be positive, even when yer feeling like c**p (or at least try!). When you have a good day store it and remember it when yer having a bad one because every up will eventually overide the down time.
Keep posting, keep asking, keep reading, let this "sticking plaster for the brain" do its job however long it takes and there is just one more thing to say, and that is "Welcome to the Club!" There are some great members here. They helped me and I now help those like yer self that were once like us frightened, scared and sometimes curfuddled!
I am going on 9 months in and have levelled at 40mg (although not everyone needs this much. I have levelled on this dosage and I am about to start reducing in the hope that I may or may not come off. All I know with the help here, the help of my Fiancee, a change in lifestyle and asking anything that popped into my head (and they will) I am much better and a long way from the dark place I was once hovering on the edge of.
Best Wishes,
David