Chest anxiety

Mental health
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Hi all looking for some advise I'm 39 and getting married in 2 days I'm having severe heavyness of my chest and shoulder blade pain im feeling my very headchey and anxious the usual feelings of dread is it anxiety or a heart attack on the day am I actually gonna be able to go through with it cause my anxiety ruins everything I love my partner more than anything in the world I want to look forward t something for a change not be scared and unhappy x

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Hey Kelly (i'm guessing thats your name), i really think that you're just getting nervous for the big day. I'm not a health professional, so im not going to try to give you a diagnosis. However, i think your first steps should be to talk to your partner, clarify that you love them but you're really struggling with nerves. If they love you they should understand. Maybe speak to someone who will be with you on your big day so if you start to panic someone knows whats going on. Good luck xx

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Hi I'm very lucky my partner is the best and he's always been extremely supportive of any issues I've had think I'm just so disappointed that I want to be like a normal bride instead of trawling the internet for heart and stroke symptoms ☹️☹️

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Litlle suggestion, i have a friend who smells lavender when she gets nervous, something to try out maybe? xx

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Yes I have some will give it a try think if I'd have had my heart checked at some point my mind would be rested it's bloody anxiety again I'm feduo of living in fear of everything I'm 39 now this has stolen 10 years alrwady

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I understand how you feel. Anxiety ruins everything. Once the wedding begins, I bet you will be fine. CONGRATULATIONS!!

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I hope so I feel rotten at the moment miserable tired and scared and I have no doubts marrying my partner is what I want I would just like one day is that too much time ask for I'm a good person mum too 4 children had rotten past luck with men have been with my future husband for 10 years and couldn't love him anymore than I do he's great

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Change and anxiety are close buddies. Even good change. So keep that in mind. This is a brutal disorder at times. It doesnt act as a guide either. It just is a disorder.

 

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I just want one day ☹️