alright E,
I'm not going to paint a pretty picture - just letting you know my experiences with PE. Nice sunny day where I am, just came back after another walk...feeling stronger and heathier compared to May '14.
That's a tough situation to deal with buddy.
Having endurance /fitness interests, your cardio vascular system, veins, and muscles should be in good condition, and to excell in your sport; i deduce you have a balanced diet and a strong will to be amongst the best.
I find it difficult to get my head around having a bad vein (though never say never). Now we're facing internal issues and internal health recovery with treatment from NHS. I try and relax and let my blood 'just flow...whereever'
I'm in a similar situation to you- re clot in leg...travelling to lung pain, stress - future, bills etc....
When I think back and listen to my body, (prior to anticoags) I visualise my OWN blood clotting over an extended period of time (maybe days, months years!!!!) circulating around my body and have a tendency to settle from my legs to my chest, so if I have long legs and and long body - i'll have plenty of veins for the clot/s to settle and attach/detach itself to arterial/vein walls, or maybe an accumulation in my calf.
Like any form of training - real results takes time, effort and perserverance - especially healing from the inside to outside.
I don't know whats going to happen with me tomorrow 'all is not lost' (sounds like a robert redford film), but being there for your child and wife is more important than anything else.
Priorities/targets/interests may change.
If/When the pain subsides - you will want to get back on top- even if it takes 3months/6months/12months/18months? more? or longer for the clots insitu to gradually dissolve in specks and or clumps - let the doctors help you and your body recover.......
Got to be careful m8, pain and discomfort may go away - but the clots inside you may dissolve in a different time frame...
Ahhh time for chicken, lentil and chickpea lunch, catch some sun and music in back garden...
take it steady buddy,
all the best