When my 14 year old son was diagnosed with cholesteatoma last year, I rushed home & searched the internet for information. I found a very good site that explained in more detail what I had been told by his consultant & this one giving people's experiences (perfectly understandably the majority weren't good - if you don't have any problems you don't tend to go looking for support). I was looking for information about what to expect after the op so I thought I would post this which I hope may be helpful to others in our situation.
As a brief background, when he was 4 the school nurse informed me he couldn't hear very well (terrible mother that I am, I hadn't noticed - his speech was a little delayed but nothing else out of the ordinary) Glue ear was diagnosed, one ear cleared itself & we waited for the other to do the same. During this time I only remember him having one ear infection & this caused the ear to bleed a little but cleared up with antibiotics. By the time he was 12 it was decided to try a grommet which had no effect & so last year he had a CT scan which revealed cholesteatoma. He had his operation - a radical mastoidectomy - on 17th March.
The operation took around 3 hours & the surgeon said the disease was extensive & in all probability, congenitive. One of his \"hearing bones\" had to be removed. Immediately after the op he was given anti-sickness drugs & painkillers & he slept for most of the day. Although he didn't ask for them, I made sure he was given regular painkillers & he left hospital after an overnight stay armed with antibiotics & copious amounts of co-codamol tablets.
Over the next few days he was never in any real pain, just a bit of an ache & the painkillers from the hospital & a top-up of nurofen before he went to bed (just in case) completely dealt with that. After 6 days he felt he didn't need them anymore. A week after the op we noticed a bit of blood-stained \"ooze\" coming from the dressing & called the hospital. The ENT doctor advised that this was normal & as long as it wasn't foul smelling & he was well in himself, was nothing to worry about (if you get this PLEASE, don't take my word for it - contact your hospital who will give advice on your particular situation)
Just over 2 weeks after his op, we have just seen the consultant & had the dressings removed. Everything seems to be healing well. He will need another op in 6 months time to make sure there is no more cholesteatoma & as there is now quite a cavity where the disease has been removed (& this is prone to infection), he is probably looking at filling it. He is also talking about reconstructing the bone which has been removed to hopefully improve his hearing. I can't say whether the op has affected what hearing he had in that ear because he says he can't remember what it was like before- honestly, memory of a goldfish! I guess his next hearing test will reveal that.
It is still very early days for my son & we don't yet know how this is going to pan out for him but so far, so good. He's not felt at all unwell so has been able to enjoy his fortnight off school & he's not a great fan of swimming so the worst thing for him is not being able to play football for another 4 weeks!
Like I said at the beginning, I hope this helps others who have just been diagnosed & my sympathy to those who have had a bad experience with this horrible disease