I think you'll find that most of us – and I do mean most of us – have balked at the idea of taking these meds. And yet they do do the job.
Keep in mind that each one of us responds differently to these drugs. There is no certainty at all that your body will have serious side effects.... just as long as you follow the rheumy's protocol and keep having your bloods checked, and lead a healthy life.
I spent the first six months experimenting with every alternative under the sun, including 10 sessions of acupuncture.
Nothing touched it.
Another acupuncturist friend confessed (after my 10 sessions!) that the disease RA as such would not respond to acupuncture, though the pain might.
Even my homeopathist confessed that nothing he could offer could afffect RA.
Meanwhile my rheumy sat back and watched and continued to test me.
Then there came a moment when he said that now's the time to start because if I didn't there would be a danger, not just of excrutiaitng pain (which by then there was anyway) but of permanent joint damage and deformity.
Meanwhile i had been on a low-acid, non-dairy, gluten-free diet, supplemented with all sorts of dietary goodies.
I had three friends who had eschewed the drugs and gone alternative – three friends with RA. Two regretted it openly. One, a musician, could no longer play his beloved guitar. The other told me her wrist joints had fused and though you didn't notice it, it was in fact an enormous practical handicap.
The third refused to talk about it with me, but was quite evidently suffering from severe deformities in her hands and feet.
I went for the drugs.
That was almost 10 years ago. So far so good. I am right now in almost complete remission.
I eat a healthy diet, I exercise, I lead a positive creative life and I'm grateful for my rheumy's indulgence when I rather haughtily assured him I would find other ways to get well.
Now there's another thread here somewhere where someone is recommending something called Nutrional Muscle Testing, which, I believe, is connected to what used to be known as kinesiology.
She and others swear by it.
And I'm fully prepared to believe that if one could truly find the perfect individual body-tailored diet, there's a chance a huge amount of pain could be reduced.
This is just my experience.
Experimentation is all!
Good luck to you...