Many thanks for that RHGB
I have had a fair bit of trauma in my life,I suppose i blamed that,so i could justify having a drink!
As I said.45 yrs old,have been a drinker since the age of twelve (used to share a bottle of sherry with my dad so he didint drink as much,then go home and beat my mum up)
Since then my life has been a pile of sh*t,apart from the birth of my gorgeous daughter.
I have been trying to access help from the Drs for years,swollen ankles and knees,perpetual back pain.
I put it all down to my job (butcher) lifting and carrying heavy objects all day.
I retired from butchery 3 years ago, my partner asked me to pack it in so i could help him run his small business.which works just fine by me.
But the constant pain after a year or so was still there.
So I kept returning to the Drs,they have done several tests over the years and all came back as ok.
Especially the liver function,a little on the high side at times,but Dr would just say,try and cut down on the drink.
Recently my partner has embarked on opening another small business,and left me to run the one from home, i felt quite strained,and spreading myself a bit too thin,i started to drink more.
Loooking after the house,my daughter and her school work,my elderly mother (who is also an alcoholic)Who persistantly rings me all day.
I dont drink to get drunk,(i only ever drink cider)
Went in for the usual blood test,Dr made an appt at the hospital for me to see a gastroenterologist,then two days later whammy,
You have Decompensating Cirrhosis...Blimey where did that creep up from.
My spleen was also enlarged and they want me to go straight away for a 5 day detox.
I couldnt get out of there quick enough,i explained, i cannot afford the time.We dont even go on holiday...
So now on day 6 of total abstinance and feeling a bit better (apart from rattling with vitamins) i am not able to eat properly.
so i am back to question....what sort of diet does anyone else have to offer..
i have researched loads online,but i must say its all gobleddy gook to me. cant have this,cant have that, only this amount of that.
And quite frankly im sick of coffee and iced water.
sorry to ramble
many thanks for listening