G,Day friends does any one feel alone ,Like i have Motor Bike friends i ride with but i feel alone at times I lost my Wife in 1993 i had to Turn her Life support Machine Off and it messed with my head my Only Love married at 20 and planned to have our Family Young and grow up with them ,But it all went south ,She passed .I felt like my heart was ripped out it really messed me up in the Head ,i saw Shrinks every week Just getting back on Track and Police Knowcked on my front door at 5 Am my Son was Killed by a drunk driver 2 weeks after his 21St B/Day .I am in the Uylsses Motor Cycle Club we love to ride you must be 50 to be a full member and we do a Lot of Charity work But i feel so alone at time ,s i would like to meet a Lady just to talk to Plus i have Cronic Pain 24/7 Half my Bowel out 3 foot of Intestine out was Gang Green 4 Disc,s out of my spine 4 Aghesion opperations and my Ilium Taken out im on a lot of Pain Medication and mostly pain free But i feel lonley im on Valium 5mg x 3 .
I have been away of the dating sean for since 1972 i have my Son an Daughter But feel alone what should i do any idea,s guys an Girls What ,s Next ???
Hello, i am sorry you have had so much tragedy in your life, the pain you have suffered and the shock of losing people you love must of been overwhelming. I can understand how lonely you must feel. I too lost my husband when i was 29 he was 28, i am now in my 50's. I was left with 2 young children to bring up. I also have struggled with mobility problems most of my life and have had several operations from age 11. So i will try to understand some of what you are suffering. Have you thought about joining a meet up group, google social groups in your area. I joined one and i have been to the cinema and played board games. There are many different types of groups depending on your interests, some do holidays, ramblers, meals out etc. They are mixed ages and sexes. It's
a great way to meet people. If you specifically want dating sites try local ones,
thou i haven't gone down this route. If you can do voluntary work that could be a good way of meeting people too. If you widen your social circle you may find a nice lady .I understand the lonliness as i am lonely but i try to keep busy with seeing my grand children and i do online courses. Hope this helps. Elizabeth.
well I can only say you are a warrior to have withstood all that. My thoughts are with you and I hope you recover to being healthy again.
Rich
Thank You richard89308 thanks for caring as some people just make fun of me on this site ,But i think the Moderator is on to Him Now ?