!so for the last 4 months sex has been very painful, even when i haven’t had sex with my boyfriend for a while and then we have sex for the first time it still hurts.
The pain is around the opening of the vagina and on both sides, but its not inside.
I have attached a picture because I noticed a lesion near the opening of my vagina and I was wondering what it could be from because I think that is the source of the pain.
If it is herpes, would sex really be painful all the time for 4 months? As I have heard herpes occurs in episodes and don’t know if it could last that long?
I did get screened for sexual diseases like a month ago and they found nothing for chlamydia,ghonnorea, trich and HIV. I’m not sure if they check for herpes, but they haven’t called to say I have anything. They swabbed my cervix and took bloods, but said everything looked normal - despite this the same kind of pain occurred when they were examining me with a speculum, so i don’t know if they just didn’t see the lesion then as they definitely didn’t swab it or say it was there.
also think the lesion has grown compared with this picture which was taken a lot earlier