i had unprotected sex about a month ago on Feb 3 had some discomfort discovered a small sore in my rectum so approx 3 weeks later on the Feb 29! It doesnt hurt when i pee just poop cause now that i discovered it i keep checking and spreading my cheeks now my anus is swollen! Even though the sore isnt there its still discomfort! Before and After Pics
It might be hemorrhoids. Herpes does not show up in the anus area unless you had anal sex.