Why do we repeat things that we know are wrong/stupid?
Drinking again and cut open the cuts I made last night and I don't even know why
whats upsetting you x
I did it yesterday, nothing major but just things getting too much for me at the minute, I know it's wrong and not the best thing to do but it makes me feel better.. Do you feel that way aswell after you've done it, there must be something getting too much for you. X
Oh Dondons.
What caused you to self harm ?
Does it relieve pressure by doing this?
Are your wounds clean, have you bathed them?
Put some salt in the water when cleaning them as it will help you by killing germs, it may hurt a little but you don't wanted the wounds infected.
Do you drink heavily?
Do you have a problem with alcohol?
Do you hate yourself?
Do you hate the way you look?
I know a lot of questions but try and answer them so we can help you.
Remember we are always here for you day and night.
You,are a valuable person and give excellent advice to others.
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With love, Linda xx
I do it with s/h all the time. I know it's wrong and dangerous but can't control it
Hi, Dondons, ... Please try to resist the urge to cut yourself, do you want to cut after you have had a drink? Or Is the urge to self harm there all the time and you drink to try to block it?.....
Have you got any support at home, husbands, parents ect to talk to and try to help? It is obvious that you love your family very,very much.....
You need and deserve to get help and support !!! Please talk to your family doctor or your practice nurse, also for invaluable help xx
The Samaritans... I truly hope that you begin to feel better and cope
With life... sincere and heartfelt wishes to to you.....Deirdre .. xx
I don't know why i did it other than through pure frustration I just get really adjutated I don't know it kinda helps for all of 5 minutes then my mind sways from the pain back to my thoughts.
I don't hate the way I look, it's not something I really think about and I don't think I have a problem with alcohol other than I know I drink more than I should.
I don't know sorry don't have the answers x
I have a friend that i talk to but I don't like to burden her with too much, I'm close to my family and have a big family but i don't talk to them about things like this, to them im funny Don dons....it's a front but guess I'm good at which I'm kinda glad about cos I can be someone else around them, if that makes sense, sometimes it's nice to pretend x
Ditto but not the cutting, really fed up with myself for doing it again !
Maybe a better day tomorrow ? One can only hope x
Xxxx
Hi, Dondons, ... Please try to resist the urge to cut yourself, do you want to cut after you have had a drink? Or Is the urge to self harm there all the time and you drink to try to block it?.....
Have you got any support at home, husbands, parents ect to talk to and try to help? It is obvious that you love your family very,very much.....
You need and deserve to get help and support !!! Please talk to your family doctor or your practice nurse, also for invaluable help xx
The Samaritans... I truly hope that you begin to feel better and cope
With life... sincere and heartfelt wishes to to you.....Deirdre .. xx
you need help dondons from the community mental health team. I think that you are in crisis.
Richard
Sorry with the risk of sounding really dumb, what exactly do you mean by the mental health team?
I'm on meds, have a supportive doctor and also see a counsellor once a week x
well if you have all that support and are feeling low and like hurting yourself, maybe you should get some extra help from them as well as us.
Richard
My counsellor is a great help but I can't see him more often than I do, I just can't afford it.
Although my doctor is supportive there's only so much he can really do to help x
Hi Richard,
Can I ask why you would put a comment like this to dondons ? X
because I am concerned about her safety and wellbeing.
Crazy I agree. I have pulled Richard up time and time,again. X
Could I just point out and I speak from personal experience, your choice of words " if you like hurting yourself " are rather offensive and ill informed and as such could cause distress, I appreciate you may not have any knowledge surrounding self harm and the reasons for it but I can assure you NO ONE LIKES to self harm it is a coping strategie, not a healthy one granted but is way more complicated x
Could I just point out and I speak from personal experience, your choice of words " if you like hurting yourself " are rather offensive and ill informed and as such could cause distress, I appreciate you may not have any knowledge surrounding self harm and the reasons for it but I can assure you NO ONE LIKES to self harm it is a coping strategie, not a healthy one granted but is way more complicated x
I've never heard of him before but I do feel that if you don't understand what someone is going through then just say that and wish them well if you feel the need to comment, ignorance can do more harm, I hope dondons is ok x