Depersonalization and fatigue

Hello,

After some advice really. 

So lately over the past few months, a few people have commented (work mainly) that I always look exhausted and it's not a "good look" and I genuinely do feel it.

My anxiety has been largely under control and I have not had a panic attack now in months (6+ probably). I was very bad at one point, but to be honest, once it kind of left my mind, it dissipated of its own accord. It's only when a few months past and my partner pointed out, I hadn't brought it up at all that I thought this period was over. I have had a lot to focus on around the house which has been the distraction needed.

The thing is now though, I spend every day exhausted for no real good reason. I have a constant headache and I feel very detached, It's like I can't focus on anyone or anything and easily get overwhelmed. If someone speaks, I can't focus on them to listen, it just feels distant and muffled and this scares me. I can walk the shops, get my shopping, function perfectly fine to everyone else, but to me it feels like I am just distant from everything and looking through someone else's eyes. It's like I am not altogether with it but have no anxiety symptoms that I had in the past. 

I was driving to my parents yesterday, and just stopped my car by the side of the road to cry. What over I couldn't say, I was just a shaky mess and it came out the blue but it's worried me.

I am worried it's a form of depression, but no idea how to talk to my doctor about it without sounding like I have lost the plot. After a good year of dealing with anxiety, I thought I was over this. 

I am 26, male overwise perfectly healthy. I have had a lot of long-term stress though (job, house buying process - twice, moving twice, family etc) and worrying it's just caught up. I also think my job is a major driver and working to change that. The job is soul destroying which doesn't help. The way I feel now though, I doubt I would be good in a new role.

I think the GP will probably push antidepressants. Can these really help me feel gauge a sense of reality back again? Scared to try them to be honest!

Any advice would be appreciated

 

 

If you don't want to take antidepressants don't take them I would definitely talk to someone so that they can help you

Thomas

I had family and health problems, I was retired from a responsable job in the 1988s.

and never worked since, I am now retired pensioner

I left my concerns to late and although I had all the treatments associated with Depression and Anxiety my courage did not come about until I moved away from all my irritations.

Talk to your GP and see if you can have some treatments that could help you.

Look at your job and decide if there is something else you could do.

BOB