since anaesthesia for an op i wake moaning, feeling bad. Goes off when fully awake but have no motivation and domnot want to see people or do anything. Have become dependent upon partner for meals. Try to walk each day. Busy life gone. Whats happened? Dr tried many anti deps but all made me worse. Something is wrong but all he can say is anxiety. Im sure its more than that due to serious life changes which make me feel i am not normal.
Why wouldn't you be normal due to serious life changes? Do you mean you are no longer the busy active person you were before? Do you have physical health problems now? If so the only answer is to accept they are your new normal. This isn't easy and will take time as it is suffering the loss of who you were as a person. This is devastating.
If you don't have physical health problems which are making you think like this then it could well be anxiety. Have you been offered any anxiety meds? Or only ad ones? It might also be a good idea to seek counselling in case it is anxiety. x