Hi I can't cope much longer living without my past partner friends job house and the way life was then been 4 years now but it's got worse over that time because I have had not much life I stay in almost all the time I got one best mate who is on his own and ask me to go and stay with him and start going out and about and try having a bit of live but I feel scared because if I can't cope what will happen to me I still want to live but can't without my past I am lost I am scared and feel just like a little boy instead of Man in his 50s . I am obsessed with past I have had lots of help keep saying it's depression . Do anyone have any ideals on this.
Hi I suffer with this to not necessary the past but life. Are you on medication? If not I suggest you go and see your doctor ?
Hi thanks for your reply yes I am on Meds and seen lots of people just can not cope much longer without my old life . Nige
I would get on an antidepressant fast, effexor works for me. You need to realize the past is just that. Your young still and can meet new people. Maybe GOD has a differnent plan for you. It took me till 55yrs old to get it together
Look to a better future and stop looking at what was.You can't go backwards in life as much as we want it.
Been there done that. Try doing a little each day and doing new things.
Hi thanks for replying I am on Meds and also seen lots of people but not much help all I lost was all I ever wanted I am in my 50s but feel like a little boy can't cope with life like it is but still want to live .
Nige, I don't want to preach to you any but I was where you are X5years ago but worse. Then I found Jesus and started going to a church and it totally changed my life forever. I'm getting off meds and the depression is now gone. I've met the best of people and now I no for sure there's a better life than this. I'm no longer scared, afraid, worried
nothing. Just happy. Maybe you could just give it a try.