I was last on a few months ago. I was suffering depression from work. I have just started another job. The company I work for know asked me why I left my last job. I told them I wanted a new job.
I found out there was another employee from the last company I worked for. She went to tell the managers that I was the male stripper in the last company. After she told them they have asked me to do a show for them and they have pressured me doing it. I ended up doing a show for the women in the office and know they want me to carry on. I am know getting depressed again.
I do not know what to do.
Say NO you don't have to do anything you don't want to. Yes it is a new job and you want to make friends and make an impression but not to the point it is going to be detrimental to your mental health..
You done the strip show once they got what they wanted and you should never have felt pressured into it..
Put your mental health first because if you don't it will affect your job again..
Dear Laura11452,
Thank you for your surport.
Steve
Hun, you don't have to do anything that you don't want to do. You just tell them that your done with that type of a job. That you tried it for a little while and it just wasn't for you. Pleasing people you work with isn't worth your health!