Hey guys, when do you think is the right time to disclose ? I met a great guy this summer out the blue but he was vacationing from the Caribbean and we are very attracted to each other we even kissed already, he's really into me and even wants to have kids but I have not told him yet ... he said he should be visiting around the beginning of next yr (Jan or feb). I feel like it's better to tell him in person but then I don't want it to be a let down for him ...should I tell him now while he's away or should I wait for him to come and tell him in person? I'm really hoping this is the first and last guy I ever have to tell I'm just ready to settle and start a family before anything else crazy happens to be.. been through a lot but I'm so scared that he would be freaked out and just end it....
There's really no reason to rush to tell someone that ..
You have to ask yourself is he willing to contract the disease to be with you ?
I don't know .. I create little arguments so that he will stop talking to me because I feel guilty about it ... and I have to tell him at some point