Do i have genital herpes?

So me and my girlfriend of almost four months have been sexual active and havent been using a condom while having sex. we are both virgins to each other and lost our virginities to each other. 

The only sexual things i have done to anyone other than her is oral with my mouth before dating her, and i never experienced and still dont experience any effects of "herpes" my girlfirend had me come over to talk to me and was crying saying she had gotten tested for herpes. she told me she only had oral done on her in a past relationship so im very confused on whats going on.

Do i have herpes now?

does she really have herpes? she got medicine and everything for it.. im very confused

She also got flush in her mouth after oral awhile ago. i can have pictures sent of my genitalia if needed.. just very worried and planning an appointment with my doctor soon

I’m not jerry springer but sounds to me like your gf isn’t a virgin 

i believe her when she says she isnt.. im just still worried

you really think she isnt a virgin?

By all means please get tested. NO ONE ON HERE QUALIFIED TO KNOW IF Y'ALL HAVE HERPES OR NOT.