OK, each to his/her own,,,,,but WHY are these pages filled with moaners, instead of POSITIVE POSTS.........then the less able/ more needy/ of us would have a bit of hope to go to..
Bcause this is a depression site? If you were able to be postive you wouldn't need to come in here would you? Why don't you write a positive post? Put your money where your mouth is....
What "brasses me off" is that you must be a naive and somewhat ignorant person....AND sorely lacking in empathy and compassion.As someone just said,you must be on the wrong site.
Hi, having a bad day? (At a stretch) i kinda get where you're coming from but this is a forum for depression, not sure you're likely to see many "positive" posts (although there are some) if you don't like to see people "moaning" and it brings you down more then maybe just not come on here when you're that low or in that frame of mind? Kinda comes across as a really inconsiderate post although not sure you realised that when writing it, this is a site where people moan, vent, express their feelings, ask for help and to help and advise others, although there may not be many "positive" posts it's still a very helpful forum, If you're looking for a bit of hope then maybe ask for help/advise? As there are lots of people here that can give you advice and therefore giving a little hope.
I haver only ever posted positive comments here, and I think most people do the same. I see no moaners here. You seem to be in a very low state and I am sorry you feel this way. Best you leave it to us helpful folk instead of saying such nasty things. I will put it down to your depression!!
Very often, what you may see as "moaning" is serving a very useful and positive purpose. It's "positive" to hear that others are suffering and surviving in similar ways to you. It's "positive" to know there are people who care enough to respond to "moaning" with some variation on "I feel your pain. Hang in there! You can beat this!", or who will come to their defense when wrongfully, rudely, and quite unjustifiably accused of being a moaner.
It is indeed heartwarming that the people using this site respond to each other with much empathy and give each other support and comfort.And it is only fellow sufferers who can truly comprehend how challenging it can be suffering from depression...But also how lovely that most of us can laugh at ourselves,even when it's pretty unbearable!And we DO have our good days,don't we?!!I'm really grateful that I can go on here and honestly know that I am not some freak and that we have all gone through similar agonies...Thanks everyone x x
Wow. Your first post about the notifications was hilarious actually, for me anyway, i too find that annoying but what i find more annoying is that you come on here and just see the negative, you don't see the positive in any of the relpies to somebodys 'moaning', that's up to you, please excuse the rest of us we totally forgot we had to go back to the old times of regards to mental illness and sit quietly in a corner drawing pretty rainbows and daises and kept quiet. Oh how dare we have some kind of voice. Do some of us a favour, when you go out lose your damn keys.
Not sure what made you click on the post button but maybe next time stop and think of the consequences of your actions. I note you haven't even apologised which in my mind is worse still.
You may get more respect from people if you did, and if you were having a bad day then maybe a top tip is to just think more carefully in future. You need every support mechanism you can get. You even put that you are less able and need and your're looking for hope. Depression is not all roses and unlike a cold just doesnt go away over night in a few weeks.
I am sure if you have not left the forum thru embarrassment than a sincere apology wouldn't go a miss.
If I have taken you comment wrong and incorrectly then perhaps if you explain I am sure I can honourable enough to apologise to you. As will anyone else if you think your message is justified.
I am sure if you are depressed that you will find you will get teh support you need when your life is a wry.
I am not sure what you mean by in all the time "you practised from the surgery" ?
Hi Jimmy, I don't think this guy Howard is worth communicating with, he is obviously getting a kick out of his responses. I will not engage with him as i think he is rude and has no feeling for anyone but himself.
Well We are better than that if he is that way, so lets see what happens. He can either prove us right with his arrogance or he can man up and so the decent thing and maybe just swallow some pride and apolgise to the people that hes clearly not thought of